He is a fixed sign, after all, and is very slow to rise to action. Being ruled by Pluto, Scorpio men can easily embody this mindset.
His jealousy and need for control is a drag. But to really bond with him, you need to open up to him. For all of the intensity and emotional drama that Scorpios get a bad reputation for, the passion and love they have is tough to beat. Follow Jake on Instagram. Type keyword s to search.
Today's Top Stories. Related Story. When you do fight, he can be as self-protective as an actual scorpion.
In fact, if things become too easy and mellow, Scorpio will consciously or unconsciously provoke some trouble in a relationship. Scorpio seems to thrive on emotional drama and intensity, while Libra very much prefers harmony, sweetness, and peace. Scorpio is drawn to the hidden, dark, mysterious side of life and of people, while Libra focuses on the light and good in others.
Generally Libra accepts people as they appear to be, while Scorpio probes and analyzes and is more suspicious. Also, Scorpio can be manipulative and controlling, and may be subtly dominating in this relationship. The two of you are likely to have a volatile, passionate relationship, and a deep attachment to one another as well.
You are both very intense inwardly, and yet many of your feelings are hidden except from those few with whom you are very intimate. You are wholehearted and often extreme in your emotional reactions; you love and hate, feel rage, triumph, fierce loyalty or complete loathing — all with equal fervor. You can simmer and brood over something for a long time without expressing or releasing your feelings, and you can build up tremendous resentment or guilt this way.
Both of you like to keep things hidden and need privacy; you enjoy having secrets.
Because you are both suspicious and cautious about revealing yourselves, those you trust must prove themselves to you and you expect absolute faithfulness from them. You are sensitive to betrayal and can be intensely jealous. Since you are both this way, you understand one another very well, but obviously when you clash, it can be quite explosive. Both of you crave powerful emotional experiences and may seek this out in various ways, including engaging in challenging or dangerous physical activities, choosing a profession that involves you in life-and-death or intense crisis situations, reading or watching shocking or gruesome horror stories, or by creating emotional storms in your own personal lives.
You two are like night and day, emotionally speaking. Sagittarius is light, optimistic, and philosophical about life and emotional experiences, always expecting to bounce back and grow from a difficult time. Idealistic and forward-looking, Sagittarius tends to ignore or deny raw emotion and the dark, painful aspects of life. Scorpio, on the other hand, is an intensely, passionately emotional person who has little emotional distance or detachment. While Sagittarius is basically open, and confides and shares freely, Scorpio is very careful, even suspicious, and does not trust or open to just anyone.
Scorpio is inward and private and can be quite asocial at times, whereas Sagittarius loves to go out and socialize or participate with people. Scorpio tends to brood and often becomes dark and silent, and Sagittarius may try to jolly or lighten Scorpio up, which can be helpful sometimes but is just as often intrusive. Sagittarius wants sunny weather all the time, while Scorpio loves a storm. Also, Scorpio gets deeply attached to loved ones, and is very sensitive to any threat to the bond.
Jealousy and being overly possessive can be problems.
Sagittarius, on the other hand, is friendly, emotionally generous, not especially possessive, and needs space to move about without being scrutinized and questioned all the time. Capricorn tends to repress feelings, emotional needs, and the inner child who wants to play and to be taken care of. Capricorn often keeps an emotional distance and will not get emotionally involved.
Frequently Capricorn seems impassive, unresponsive, or emotionally detached, and has a habit of taking life too seriously. Material security and success can become a substitute for emotional well-being and happiness. Scorpio, on the other hand, is intensely emotional, though very private and secretive about feelings. Scorpio is deep, complex, given to silent brooding, and often harbors unspoken feelings for a long time.
Resentments, guilts, and secret fears can build up to tremendous proportions if not shared and released. Neither of you trusts others very readily and you are both afraid of being vulnerable or not in control. This can prevent you from opening up completely to one another. You are both capable of great depth, fidelity, and constancy in a relationship, and neither of you is superficial emotionally. For this reason you can be harmonious together.
Your emotional natures and needs are so different that there is likely to be quite a bit of dissonance or conflict between you, unless you both come to understand and accept one another. However, you are both quite fixed in your own ways and are not always receptive to changing unless it is on your own terms.
Scorpio needs intense closeness and emotional intimacy, and becomes fiercely attached to loved ones. Extreme possessiveness, jealousy, and an urge to manipulate and control loved ones are feelings Scorpio may contend with. Libra in love is into togetherness and understands give and take. Scorpio in love is jealous, dramatic, and secretive.
That means one thing -- you have to get this lover! Sound like you? A shaky couple Scorpio is known for their pessimism and anti-establishment ways that they love to question and analyze. To use social login you have to agree with the storage and handling of your data by this website. If you can accomplish this, Libra will put you on the pedestal you know you deserve. The more they get to know each other, they more they find they have in common.
Libra favors light relationships, at least to begin, while Scorpio is all or nothing. It's hard for Scorpio to pursue drawn-out courtships. Scorpio could feel like Libra doesn't get them on a deep level. Scorpio must decide Libra is worth the wait and this elusive lover has the emotional density they need. Even when Libra enters a commitment, there's need for personal space.
Scorpio's enveloping nature and tendency toward control could set off alarms. Above all, Libra likes to keep it dignified, avoiding the dark corners of relationships. The sign of the Scales is known to dance around conflict until it recedes in the rearview mirror. Yet cardinal Libras have an edge when it comes to relationships. They like to drive the action forward.
Scorpio loves to probe and intermingle, go to the bottom together, and rise again. A persnickety Libra might find that sordid.